Relationships
How not to talk to your husband
By Omenesa Oruma Akomolafe “For goodness sake, where are you?” This is with a vibrato in my voice. I was peeved to the core. The whole room stood still. People
Being a successful cougar is an art
By Bunmi Sofola Cougar’ is a sophisticated word introduced to the dating scene a few years back. A cougar, aka Puma, aka American mountain lion, is a fierce-looking animal who
Orgasm: Are women short-changed by men?
New research has confirmed that single women have fewer orgasms, while their male counterparts have the most. According to one of the researchers, having an orgasm is more like running
Turned off by naked bodies of men in their 60s
Ubong, just turned 63 and a grandmother recalled a recent date she had with a man ‘her age’ a few years back. A merry widow in the real sense of
As he laid his bed
By Yetunde Arebi Toyin, at barely 16, was pregnant and proudly announcing her great news to all who cared to listen. Tall, dark, well bosomed with all the right womanly
Turned down by a single mom
Love Dear Bunmi, There is this single mother of two around where I live and we get on well together. Her children are under 10. When I eventual summoned the
He’s in denial about our relationship
Dear Bunmi, I’ve been having an affair with one of my husband’s good friends for the past six months and I think I’m in love with him. He’s also married
Marriage hasn’t stopped his flirting
DearBunmi, My husband gets a load of kicks from flirting with other women. For the eight years we’ve been married, I’ve watched him chat-up women and I’ve had countless nights
Childbirth’s left my boobs saggy
Breast sucking Dear Bunmi, I am 28 and just had my first child. To my horror, I discovered my boobs have sagged since I gave birth. My husband has even
I love my ex better than my wife
Dear Bunmi, I got married two years ago when I hadn’t completely fallen out of love with my ex-girlfriend. I met my wife on the rebound, after my ex left

