Relationships
He’s in denial about our relationship
Dear Bunmi, I’ve been having an affair with one of my husband’s good friends for the past six months and I think I’m in love with him. He’s also married
Marriage hasn’t stopped his flirting
DearBunmi, My husband gets a load of kicks from flirting with other women. For the eight years we’ve been married, I’ve watched him chat-up women and I’ve had countless nights
Childbirth’s left my boobs saggy
Breast sucking Dear Bunmi, I am 28 and just had my first child. To my horror, I discovered my boobs have sagged since I gave birth. My husband has even
I love my ex better than my wife
Dear Bunmi, I got married two years ago when I hadn’t completely fallen out of love with my ex-girlfriend. I met my wife on the rebound, after my ex left
Can I improve on my technique?
Dear Bunmi, Afewyearsago,Iwasinmy first serious relationship. Although I loved my partner, I was too tense during the physical side of love-making. I am currently involved with a nice and considerate
He used me for sex
Dear Bunmi, I am in my early forties, married and have children. My husband was married before and had a child from another relationship before his divorce. 1 am a
Our son’s wife threw him out
Love …and we want him out too! Dear Bunmi, Our then 24-year-old son moved out of the family home, as soon as he graduated six years ago, partly because
A man who raises his fist to a defenceless woman needs psychiatric help
You wake up every morning wondering what ‘crimes’ you’ll commit today, and how your husband will punish you”, Tina, a victim of a violent husband laments. “A punch in the
You shouldn’t take your sex life for granted
“Most men think they’re great in bed,” observed Jane, a marriage counsellor. “But much as we love our men, a five-minute quickie before lights out really doesn’t get the earth
A gentleman is never afraid to ask a woman what turns her on
No matter how athletic, young, and good-looking, a lot of men have confessed they don’t really know what to do with that panting woman in their arms. Playing on the

