Relationships
Can I trust this returnee boyfriend?
Dear Bunmi, I’m a 28-year-old single mother of an adorable son. I’m currently involved with a man who is very nice to me and my son, and I love him.
Raped by my ex
Love Dear Bunmi, For 18 months, Greg and I had a very strong relationship and the sex was great. Unfortunately and for no reason, I fell out of love
I thought he would ask me to move in
Dear Bunmi, My boyfriend, 30, is kind, mature and has a good job, which he enjoys. He isn’t one to go to joints and night clubs, like previous boyfriends. He
She’s no longer the woman I married
Dear Bunmi, My wife no longer turns me on, as I don’t find her attractive anymore. We’ve been married for 28 years and are now in our 50s. I’m not
Can you really tell if a man is serious?
Dear Bunmi, In the last few years, I’ve been out with three men only. I’d discovered that they weren’t the partners I always hoped for. In fact, the last one
You might be the reason your man strayed
By Bunmi Sofola Mothers certainly know best no matter how old their children. Eccua, a younger friend, paid a visit to her mum some few months back, virtually bending her
Turned down by a single mom
Love Dear Bunmi, There is this single mother of two around where I live and we get on well together. Her children are under 10. When I eventual summoned the
He’s in denial about our relationship
Dear Bunmi, I’ve been having an affair with one of my husband’s good friends for the past six months and I think I’m in love with him. He’s also married
You shouldn’t take your sex life for granted
“Most men think they’re great in bed,” observed Jane, a marriage counsellor. “But much as we love our men, a five-minute quickie before lights out really doesn’t get the earth
A gentleman is never afraid to ask a woman what turns her on
No matter how athletic, young, and good-looking, a lot of men have confessed they don’t really know what to do with that panting woman in their arms. Playing on the

