Relationships
Can I improve on my technique?
Dear Bunmi, Afewyearsago,Iwasinmy first serious relationship. Although I loved my partner, I was too tense during the physical side of love-making. I am currently involved with a nice and considerate
He used me for sex
Dear Bunmi, I am in my early forties, married and have children. My husband was married before and had a child from another relationship before his divorce. 1 am a
Our son’s wife threw him out
Love …and we want him out too! Dear Bunmi, Our then 24-year-old son moved out of the family home, as soon as he graduated six years ago, partly because
A man who raises his fist to a defenceless woman needs psychiatric help
You wake up every morning wondering what ‘crimes’ you’ll commit today, and how your husband will punish you”, Tina, a victim of a violent husband laments. “A punch in the
You shouldn’t take your sex life for granted
“Most men think they’re great in bed,” observed Jane, a marriage counsellor. “But much as we love our men, a five-minute quickie before lights out really doesn’t get the earth
A gentleman is never afraid to ask a woman what turns her on
No matter how athletic, young, and good-looking, a lot of men have confessed they don’t really know what to do with that panting woman in their arms. Playing on the
Wives who regret ever leaving their marriage
File: Divorce By Bunmi Shofola You get to a crossroads in your life and the road you decide to take could shape your life forever – for better or worse.
Did she use me to get pregnant?
Dear Bunmi, SOME three years ago, I moved into the boys’ quarters of a house, as a tenant. My landlord is in his early 60s and a friend of my
My aunt’s husband is sleeping with me
Dear Bunmi, I am 16 years old and currently sleeping with my auntie’s husband. They have three children but are always arguing. We’ve been kissing and romancing before we started
‘We’re both pregnant for him’
Dear Bunmi, Two months ago, I called it quits with my boyfriend who constantly embarrassed me with his excessive jealousy and violence. Unfortunately, I discovered that I was pregnant. In
